I love curating gifts for teens- it's a fun challenge to find the perfect gift for Mr. All-I-Want-Is-Cash. Listen, I'm all for giving them cash for Christmas, but I can't bring myself to skip gifts all together. Um, that's not fun! I don't have a teenage son yet, but I poll friends and I pay attention. All that to say you'll find some great ideas for your teenage boy. As for the girls, the ideas are endless. I always include beauty (I love that one of my girls is into makeup and the other into skincare), hobby (hello fancy camera), and cozy ($11 fleece pullover? Say less). While there are some "big" gifts on the list, I make sure to include mostly budget-friendly finds and be sure to check the notes for a lower cost version of a few items. Ok enough chatting, here's the 2025 Teen gift guides full of Christmas gift ideas for teen boys and teen girls, with notes.

I love gift guide season! I pride myself on choosing gifts that are fun, unique, realistic, and include a lot of budget-friendly/accessible gift ideas. Today's gift guide is for big kids and preteens. Of course, Dax is my muse. He is outdoorsy, loves gadgets, is creative, and loves gaming. He plays and loves hockey but I wouldn't say athletics is his first love; that said he's a very active guy so I've included some gifts in that vein too! Hope you find something your little guy (who's not so little anymore!) will love or a few things that spark an idea! So here's the Pretty Real Gift Guide for Big Boys and Preteens with notes plus I've starred the items that are under $30.

I received my Invisalign treatment in exchange for content. All opinions are truthful and my own.

Why Now?

Sometimes you just come to a realization that something needs to change. I'm not sure when it happened- if it was when I canceled my mammogram because I was "too busy," while I carted my daughter from appointment to appointment for various medical and orthodontic needs, or when I took the time to think through my goals for the new year. But it hit me that even though I'm no longer in the throes of caring for infants and tiny toddlers, I was still putting my own care on the back burner. Whether it was my failure to find a hair stylist when we moved to the Raleigh, NC area NINE years ago, not scheduling necessary doctor appointments, or ignoring my dentist when she suggested Invisalign, I simply wasn't prioritizing my self-care and wellness. At the beginning of 2024, I decided that needed to change. I started mental health coaching, I found a braiding stylist, I got X-rays for old injuries, and I reached out to Bumgarner & Martin Orthodontics in Wake Forest regarding Invisalign. Here's a recap of my honest Invisalign experience at Bumgarner & Martin Orthodontics.

My smile had changed over the years- it was always something I really liked about myself but over time, that changed too. Aside from aesthetics, getting Invisalign would correct my bite issues which could lead to more extensive work down the road. 

About Bumgarner & Martin Orthodontics

When I visited Bumgarner & Martin, I was greeted by Ashley who is so warm and friendly. I liked her immediately and honestly just had fun chatting with her, which put me at ease. She educated me on the process and we went over all the ins and outs of what Invisalign entailed. There was plenty of time to ask all of my questions. 

Dr. Martin then met with me to discuss my treatment plan, timeframe, and goals. I'd heard from people who went into treatment with unrealistic expectations or who weren't told about the attachments Invisalign requires, so I was really impressed that the team at Bumgarner & Martin were very realistic and forthright with everything regarding Invisalign in general and my treatment specifically.

Pros and Cons of Invisalign Treatment:

Cons:

Any orthodontic treatment can be expensive. Luckily Bumgarner & Martin offers payment plans and accepts assignments from most major insurance carriers. See more here.

You are responsible for weekly scans- tbh this is a pro (more on that in a sec) but it is a recurring task you need to remember. Make sure to allow notifications from the ScanBox app to get reminders. If you're a non-compliant patient like I was at times (oops), you'll even get a text reminding you.

It's uncomfortable- your teeth are moving and that might hurt. It's not terrible pain by any means but for some reason, it surprised me. I got used to it over time and I'm sure no two experiences are alike but there was much less discomfort during the second half of my treatment. 

You need to keep up with your trays- Probably easier for adults than kids but something to consider. Just never put them in a napkin or plastic baggie! We don't have pets but if you do, keep it in a place where your pets can't get to them.

Pros:

You can eat foods that are usually off limits with braces. While you'll wear your trays almost nonstop, you remove them to eat.

You can manage so much at home vs. going into the office. I mentioned weekly scans being a con but I'd rather handle my own scans than have to trek into the office constantly.

It improves oral hygiene- by helping with crowding, flossing becomes easier. Also, something about the attachments made me floss much more often than I ever had! I think I felt like something was in my teeth so I always made sure to floss to be sure it was only the attachments I was feeling.

They're practically invisible. There was no way I'd ever get braces as an adult but Invisalign felt much more doable since they're practically invisible.

They work! At the end of the day, the results are absolutely worth any challenge.

Conclusion

I can't recommend Invisalign at Bumgarner & Martin Orthodontics enough. The office is so friendly and thorough and the treatment was the least invasive way to fix my teeth. Time goes by so quickly- I'm glad I didn't put it off any longer! And though this was a partnership, I moved Nadia's treatment to Bumgarner & Martin (paid for out-of-pocket) because I was so pleased with my experience! If you live in Raleigh, North Carolina, Wake Forest, North Carolina, Knightdale, North Carolina, Rolesville, North Carolina or the Triangle area in general, I highly recommend checking out Bumgarner & Martin for you or your child's orthodontic care!

When we recently renovated the kids' hangout room, I wanted to include a special feature- either a moulding type wall treatment or wallpaper- I wasn't sure exactly but something interesting and fun. And while wallpaper is fun, I'm such an optimizer- looking at every option available and analyzing the pros and cons- that I wanted to find an easier project that still had a wow factor. I decided to paint an accent wall in a plaid pattern to look like wallpaper. Who remembers the last time I painted an accent wall?! It worked out very well because-here's some BTS tea for you- I was working with HGTV Home by Sherwin Williams for the renovation. I only agree to paint collaborations if I LOVE the colors. It's only paint, but I just don't want to put in the effort for a color I don't love nor do I want to share something that I wouldn't choose "in real life," simply because I'm being paid (it's called integrity. ha). Well I saw the colors and HGSW Still Water was perfect. At least I thought it was...until I got the paint chips and tested it and it was reading too cool with the sofa we'd purchased- and we love the convertible sofa so much. I also really liked HGSW Hazel so when the thought hit me to combine the two (along with HGSW Creamy which truly is a beautiful white!), it was like Eureka! A DIY plaid wall idea was born. If you want to DIY a plaid wall, I'm sharing a step by step tutorial for how to paint a plaid wall here.

Our poor playroom has been in purgatory for awhile. It was once a cute and functional playroom, but as the kids- 15, 14, and 11- have outgrown toys, we began simultaneously clearing it out and using it as a dumping ground while we worked on other rooms in the house. It desperately needed a transformation! While it feels a bit small to label it a rec room, the goal was rec room vibes. We set out to create a fresh and modern space that felt inviting and cozy. I made a list that looked kind of like this: