I've been meaning to post about Genevieve's birthday for a while.  I was excited to plan a cute but simple fete and even more excited to actually get good photos of it (so hard to stop and take pictures or be organized enough to have time to do it beforehand).  I was going back and forth regarding a theme but once I saw this post on the HWTM blog, I was hooked.  It was perfect for Genevieve.  At the time she was obsessed with pumpkins and I liked that it highlighted the fall season vs. me wistfully wishing she was born in June so that I could plan an outdoor summer party.  You gotta work with what you got people!  Also, due to our home remodel (which maybe I'll post about one day?), we really don't have much space to entertain so I planned to host it at my in-laws.'  My MIL's house is a fall harvest extravaganza with every fall color, foliage, and decoration you can imagine.  Perfect.
I really wanted to keep the party simple (KISS principle anyone?) after the craziness of her party last year.  The temptation when you are copying inspired by an idea is to copy it exactly.  However, let's get real- most of these parties are planned by professional party planners for people who, how shall I say it without sounding tacky- um, have freakin boatloads of cash. :)  I am not and do not.  Besides you want to be able to come up with something to call your own.  Doesn't matter if a party is gorgeous if it doesn't reflect you and  your child.  Ok it might matter a little...but only a tiny bit. ;) In that vein, I imitated a few of the elements I liked, then added a few details to make it my own.  So here are the photos along with descriptions and sources.

What better birthday cake for a fall party than a four layer luscious pumpkin cake?  I made this years ago for Thanksgiving and have always wanted to make it again. 
Favor table.  I took the HWTM idea of giving out the lil pumpkins but put them in a cute ball jar wrapped with ribbon and rope twine.
I love the idea of framing the invitation for party decor.
 
 

Hope you enjoyed the details of this party.  Now it's your turn--have you planned a party using a seasonal theme?   Or perhaps you've been inspired by a party and happy with the result of how your application of it turned out?  Do tell...

I posted about the "Lose It" here.  But at the time I hadn’t been using it consistently and I hadn’t seen the results yet.  Now that I’ve been using it consistently for about 10 weeks and am thrilled with the results, I feel as though it’s something I must share!  It’s hard to tell people about how you’ve lost weight without sounding like you’re bragging (in fact I almost wrote a facebook status but decided I was just begging to be judged).  I figured if I posted about it on the blog I could go into a bit more detail-- as well as assure you that I still have a ways to go.  Besides my blog friends would never judge me right?!  ;)  So here it is…

In follow up to Friday's post, I wanted to post a few tips on taking pictures of your little one.  First the disclaimer: I am not a professional by any means!  But I do photograph my kids...a lot.  And I've been told the photos look professional (I believe the name Anne Geddes was mentioned- though I laughed at the comparison).  I've learned some tips and tricks I wanted to share.  Because I'm not a professional, these tips are not mechanical (i.e. what shutter speed to use, how to use aperture, etc) but more circumstantial... Ok here goes.

This might seem obvious but I test this one all the time.  I think "Now's a good time...for me" but is it a good time for baby?  I find that the morning works best for my kiddos; they are not overstimulated and well rested.  I also find after nursing (but not immediately after to avoid blow outs and huge spit ups--we are talking about babies after all) works well.

Nadia's room has two windows which is great.  I take a few test pictures first to see how bright the room looks.  I also find that if there is a ton of natural light I may be able to get away without using a flash (helps with red eye or frightened expressions!).  Again, these aren't technical tips but you can find a lot of tips/tricks online (pinterest is a GREAT source) for adjusting your camera's settings.

In other words, props aren't really necessary for babies.  Their cute baby faces and baby chub is enough.  Try nude if they are really young (in my humble opinion nude photos are best at 6 months or younger).  Either way try to have them in as few clothes as possible.  Elaborate outfits detract from the baby- if you don't like the idea of nude (or the potential mess), then choose a simple onesie or diaper cover...see next tip.

I'm a prop girl!  They are basically like accessories.  But avoid tons of stuffed animals, frilly outfits, big bows, etc.  I hate it when the tutu is bigger than the baby.  Just sayin. (and this coming from the girl who put the HUGE flower hat on her baby- but I did realize the error of my ways pretty quickly!). I like a hat, diaper cover & booties, a cute blanket/scarf, a basket, or a pretty tutu.  Clarification: NOT all together!  Choose one or two and go for it.

How does the song go- "You have the cutest little baby face?"  Close up pictures are the easiest to fake (i.e. make look more "professional" than they really are).  Don't get a lot of crap items in the background that scream 'random snapshot.'  Try to clear out the background and keep it simple.

Nadia is just able to hold her head up and I couldn't wait to get pictures in front of her, at that angle.  I probably could have waited another couple of weeks in order for her head to be up straighter and longer.  This goes for sitting shots as well--or any skill that they develop at a certain age.

No, I'm not talking about hiring someone! My mom used to help me out- she'd run and grab stuff or adjust the baby and jump out of the way quickly, etc.  Obviously it's not always possible to have a helper but if you can, it's awesome-- even an older sibling could help.  And I have to say, the older the kid gets, the more necessary a "helper" is.  I think I've given up on photographing Genevieve after my last attempt at 2 years old! 

Usually you're not taking pictures of them with lots of clothes on (at least if you are following tip number 3 and 4) so make sure it's warm.  I usually use a space heater or turn the heat way up for the 20 or 30 minutes I'm taking pictures. I wear a tank top and I'm still breaking out in a sweat ahem,  perspiring after!

If you need to clear a space, or have props on hand, or have the heater nearby, etc--do it before you grab the baby.  That way once you start taking photos, you're ready to go.  Because if your baby's anything like mine, you have 20 minutes (maybe 30 if you're lucky) from beginning to end.

This is the hardest part- I get it!  But it's also the most important.  It's hard to stop the busy-ness of life to take pictures.  But you'll regret it if you don't.  I literally made myself take pictures of Nadia Friday- when you have kids, there is always a nose to wipe, a diaper to change, a shower to take (mine!), a house to clean- you get my drift.  But I literally took a deep breath, held those things at bay and grabbed my camera...

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So I haven't posted in a loooong time.  And I'm sorry about that.  But I wanted you to see the reason why.  I mean, if you had this deliciousness all to yourself, would you tear yourself away to blog? ;)  Ok that's only been the truth lately.  Prior to that there was this phase of desperation sprinkled with some colic and a dose of sleep deprivation mixed in.  But now we are getting a cool 8-10 hours of sleep a night and my Nadia is happy 85% of the time.  See?